Here’s a little about me.
I am first a family guy. A dad. A husband. A brother. A son. My wife Kat is my full-time partner and co-creator. She is a brilliant photographer, homecrafter, and food “perfectionista.” She has a great site at www.katseltzeryoga.com. She also happens to be one of the most creative and gifted yoga instructors I know. We have two sons, Brendan Arthur and Owen Raine. They are perfect little wonders and explorers. Much of my energy, attention, and love is for this family of mine and growing together to be more conscious, connected, and aware in the midst of our diverse Earth community. In 2017, we found out that our son, Brendan, who was 6 at the time, had Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy. This has turned our lives in a very different direction that we expected and now shapes the way I see the world.
I believe in sustainable community. I tend to nerd out big time on anything having to do with community, urban homesteading, chicken raising, bee keeping, potlucking, gardening, and anything having to do with keeping a home larder. I have, for many years, facilitated small groups with the intent of learning together how to take care of each other better, take care of the earth better, and dive more deeply into our own diverse spiritual traditions.
Vocationally I am spiritual director and chaplain. I have been studying spiritual direction and formation since 2004 and offering spiritual direction as a practice since 2011 (certified in 2013). I completed my chaplain residency in 2014 and currently work as a board certified hospital chaplain in Oshkosh, WI. I have a deep heart for supporting women and men at critical moments on their spiritual journey. Sometimes this is for a long period of time and sometimes this is for one hour in a moment of extreme crisis. From one end of the spectrum to the other, I deeply desire to support individuals to draw on the resources they have to make meaning and to grow in days of light and the days of darkness. Both of my practices are strongly influenced by psychodynamic theory, specifically self psychology and intersubjective theory. I also am very influenced by Bill Plotkin’s 8 Stages of Eco- and Soul-Centric Development, Stages of Spiritual Growth as described by Richard Rohr, and the Enneagram. I am also very passionate about the male spiritual journey, including the importance of rites of passage and elders.
I love learning. I take my learning and training very seriously. 2003 marked my graduation from Bethel University in St. Paul, MN and I went on to earn my Masters in Divinity from Bethel Seminary in 2006 with an emphasis in Spiritual Formation and Pastoral Care. In 2012, I received my Certificate in Spiritual Formation from George Fox Seminary in Portland, OR and my Certificate in Spiritual Direction in 2013. From 2013 to 2014, I did my CPE Residency for hospital chaplaincy in Portland.
From 2008 through 2012, I helped Kat run Mandala Yoga Community, which was an incredible opportunity not only in running a small business, but in creating a business with deep intention for community and personal growth. I also did my Men’s Rites of Passage in 2010, through M.A.L.Es (Men as Learners and Elders) which was founded by Richard Rohr. After being invited to serve on the M.A.L.Es Council of Elders in 2011, I went on to serve on the founding board of Illuman (the now current facilitator of M.A.L.Es and other programs). I continue to be passionate and active in supporting men on their spiritual journey in various ways.
My most recent learning is as a scholar at the Orphan Wisdom School with Stephen Jenkinson. Meeting at his farm in Ontario, Canada with 90 plus scholars from around the world, I have been immersed in the language of grief, culture, and how we have come to be as a people. This has been an initiation into elderhood, an intensive in learning how to do something with my “No, the world doesn’t have to be this way!”
I long to connect with God. Whether it be through meeting with my own spiritual director, writing, getting out in nature, gathering in small groups, attending church with my family, or sitting in silence, I have a deep desire to grow in my awareness of connection with an always present and always loving divine. My own tradition and foundation is Christianity and I resonate most strongly with the story of God in the person of Jesus. Most specifically, my heart resonates with the streams of Celtic Christianity, Christian mysticism, and the Cosmic Christ. All things in God and God in all things.
I hope this site is a resource for you, wherever you are on your journey. Much of my earlier posts are heavy in content and definitely tell some of the story of my own journey. They are arranged by subject in the “Writing” menu. My more recent posts will be perhaps an even more eclectic portrayal of my life and journey and reflections on spirituality and life, especially on grief.
Thanks for stopping by,